Argh, magical healing cock! *facepalms* No wonder you're peeved. Although I would contend that those folks that checked out AVEN didn't read enough of the forum if they thought for one instant that asexuality was only temporary until a person found their one true love. When I was doing my research there, it was abundantly obvious that the people posting on AVEN (of whatever flavor of asexual they chose to describe) were just as permanently asexual as I am heterosexual.

And now my curiosity has been peaked. I don't remember running across the term 'grey-a' when I was doing my research - care to enlighten me as to what specific flavor of asexual that is? For some reason when I consider the term I keep visualizing a gray-haired grandmotherly type who's ace. *wry grin*